Friday, March 27, 2009
Mom Rest assured. Everything is FINE
That's it love your child. Not be in love with them—that's dangerous. If you're in love with your children, you're in their lives all the time. Leave them alone! Let them grow and make some mistakes. Tell them, "You can come home. My arms are here—and my mouth is too." Tell them, "I'm going to leave you alone. You want to listen to the that heavy sounndless def methal melody free kinda music?? Well, I think it's stupid, but help yourself." When you really love them, you don't want to possess them. You don't say, "I love you and I want you here with me." Naturally, if you love somebody, you do want to see their face every now and again, but that's not a condition of your love. People often get possession mixed up with love, and they say, "If you really loved me, you would call me." How—when life is going on? I think of you all the time, and the thought of you always lifts my spirits. But I'm not right at the phone!
That's my prelude and i have learned to accept it.Even tough what i have at home is an intelligent your man who has his our thoughts and convictions and will intuitively know if he is in a situation that he need me or my help or my opinion. I've learnd to accept it and live it with. And my gutt, my mom gutt says that i should and can trust my lil prince that is constructing his own pad where he can walk safely and surely and that's all i need to know for now.
All i need to know is that i've (to the best of my abilities) raised a child who is smart. kind and generous and who knows his identity.